by Joy Maitland | Nov 26, 2025 | Board Members, CEO, CFO, COO, CIO, General Managers, Heads of Divisions, Human Resources (HR), Leadership Development, Managing Directors, Middle Managers, News & Articles, Non-Executive Board Members, Senior Managers
Why leaders feel they must soften expectations and how rising sensitivity reshapes performance conversations and leadership confidence.
A shift leaders have noticed but rarely name
Many leaders are saying privately that it has become harder to set expectations, give direct feedback, or uphold standards without triggering defensiveness, disengagement, or emotional reaction. What once would have been a normal performance conversation now requires careful preparation, softened language, and emotional cushioning.
This is not because leaders have become harsher. It is because organisations have become more sensitive. Leaders describe it as walking on eggshells, even when their intentions are constructive and clear.
When accountability begins to feel dangerous
Leaders report that they hesitate before addressing missed deadlines, inconsistent delivery, or declining quality. They worry about how the message will be received, how the individual will interpret tone, and how quickly discomfort may escalate into grievance, withdrawal, or complaint.
Some say they now adjust expectations downward to avoid emotional disruption. Others say they absorb additional work rather than confront underperformance. Many say they have stopped being as honest as leadership requires.
The result is not kindness. It is avoidance. And avoidance erodes performance faster than incompetence ever could.
Why this fragility has emerged
Several forces have converged at once.
- A generation entering the workforce with different emotional norms.
- Anxieties amplified by uncertainty and economic pressure.
- Hybrid environments where signals are misread.
- A cultural narrative that discomfort equals harm.
In this climate, leaders are expected to protect emotional safety, sometimes at the cost of organisational effectiveness.
The paradox no one admits openly
- People want to be developed, yet resist feedback.
- Teams want autonomy, yet avoid accountability.
- Organisations want high performance, yet dilute standards.
- Leaders want to be supportive, yet fear being perceived as demanding.
This creates a workplace where expectations become softer, clarity becomes blurred, and excellence becomes optional.
The consequences leaders are already seeing
- Performance variation widens.
- Mediocrity becomes normalised.
- High performers become frustrated and quietly disengage.
- Leaders become cautious rather than confident.
- Teams become reactive rather than resilient.
When standards fall, culture weakens. When culture weakens, results decline.
The truth beneath the surface
Leaders are not lowering standards because they believe in less. They are lowering standards because they fear the reaction. And when fear shapes leadership behaviour, fragility spreads through the organisation like a silent fog.
How leaders restore strength without becoming harsh
The answer is not force. It is clarity. It is consistency. It is adult-to-adult communication.
There are approaches that rebuild resilience while maintaining trust.
- Define expectations explicitly rather than implicitly.
- Link feedback to purpose, not fault.
- Treat discomfort as a normal part of growth.
- Acknowledge emotion without being governed by it.
- Praise effort, but reward performance.
Resilience grows when challenge and support exist together.
The role modelling effect
When leaders demonstrate calm firmness, teams learn that high standards are a form of respect, not criticism.
When leaders speak truth without aggression, people learn that honesty is safe.
When leaders refuse to walk on eggshells, the organisation stops producing them.
Strength is contagious. But so is fragility.
Organisational fragility is not a problem of personality. It is a problem of culture. It emerges quietly and spreads through hesitation, avoidance, and emotional sensitivity that confuses guidance with judgment.
Here is a question worth exploring among leadership peers.
Are we protecting people from discomfort, or preventing them from developing capacity?
And here is the insight that lingers:
Organisations do not become fragile because leaders are too strong, but because leaders feel they must become weaker than the role requires.
The leaders who will strengthen their cultures are those who can uphold standards with humanity and communicate truth with steadiness. They will build workplaces where resilience returns, excellence is expected, and trust grows rather than fractures.
The Right Conversation Can Change Everything. Let’s Talk.
by Atiya Sheikh | May 25, 2025 | Board Members, Board Trustees, CEO, CFO, COO, CIO, General Managers, Heads of Divisions, Leadership Development
Resilience Starts at the Top: How Leaders Can Equip Their Businesses for Disruption
In an age of constant flux, where global shocks and rapid change have become the norm, the role of a CEO has evolved. Today’s leaders must move beyond traditional responsibilities and embrace a more dynamic title: Chief Resilience Officer.
Recent research from McKinsey & Company raises a pressing concern—84% of business leaders say they feel ill-equipped to handle future disruptions, and 60% of board members believe their organisations lack the preparation to face the next major crisis. Yet, amid this uncertainty, leaders can adopt clear, actionable strategies to build resilience and position their organisations for sustainable growth.
Understanding the Five Dimensions of Resilience
To lead effectively through disruption, CEOs must recognise that resilience spans multiple dimensions. McKinsey outlines four key areas:
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Financial Resilience – The flexibility, liquidity, and access to capital organisations need to weather setbacks and seize opportunities.
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Operational Resilience – The agility to pivot business practices swiftly and at scale.
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Organisational Resilience – The cultural and structural strength that enables teams to adapt and recover from setbacks.
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External Resilience – The strength of stakeholder relationships—including clients, regulators, and investors—that stabilise and support the business.
At inemmo, we believe organisations must also prioritise a fifth dimension:
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Digital Resilience – The ability to adapt, protect, and thrive in an increasingly digital world. This includes countering cyber threats, embracing emerging technologies, sustaining operations through digital platforms, and enhancing digital capabilities across all levels of staff.
In our global leadership work, we regularly observe how digital fragility can undermine even the most robust strategies. Digital resilience is no longer just part of operational readiness—it has become a strategic imperative.
Embedding Resilience into Organisational Vision
High-performing companies often outperform their peers because their leadership teams align under a shared, resilient vision. CEOs must set this ‘North Star’—a guiding purpose that remains steady in turbulent times.
However, many organisations fail to communicate their vision consistently during uncertainty. CEOs must take the lead in recalibrating their messaging, ensuring it connects long-term ambition with short-term responsiveness. A resilient vision inspires confidence and unifies teams navigating ambiguity.
Linking Resilience Directly to Growth
Resilient businesses don’t wait for disruption to expose weaknesses—they plan ahead. McKinsey reports that 72% of high-performing CEOs set growth targets that exceed the market average. These leaders recognise that resilience acts not only as a shield but as a catalyst for progress and innovation.
Practical actions include scenario planning, stress testing, and using periods of calm to build future capabilities. When leaders treat resilience as a growth engine, they position their organisations to seize opportunities amid uncertainty.
Investing in People and ‘Full-Body’ Resilience
Organisational strength relies on more than systems—it depends on people. CEOs must build what McKinsey describes as “full-body resilience” by addressing all five dimensions in an integrated way. Strength in one area should support others when pressure builds.
This requires investment in the adaptability and well-being of individuals across the business. Leaders should prioritise hiring and developing people who remain agile, responsive, and solution-focused—even under pressure.
Strengthening Stakeholder Relationships
In a complex, interconnected world, CEOs must show up as visible, vocal, and values-led leaders. While many executives believe in corporate responsibility, few feel that organisations take meaningful action.
Effective leaders build external resilience by cultivating strong relationships with a wide range of stakeholders—suppliers, clients, policymakers, investors, and media. These relationships grow through authenticity, consistent communication, and the courage to lead conversations on critical issues.
Final Thought
At inemmo, we believe resilient leadership goes beyond managing risk—it requires a mindset shift. In moments of upheaval, CEOs who embrace this expanded role, align their people, adapt their strategies, and build external trust will guide their organisations toward long-term value and impact.
Is your leadership team ready to become resilience architects?
The Right Conversation Can Change Everything. Let’s Talk.
by Atiya Sheikh | May 25, 2025 | Board Members, Board Trustees, CEO, CFO, COO, CIO, General Managers, Heads of Divisions
Succession Planning: The Strategic Discipline That Shapes the Future
Leadership succession is not an event—it is a discipline. Done well, it secures continuity, strengthens organisational confidence, and positions businesses to adapt and grow. But handled poorly, it exposes gaps, disrupts momentum, and undermines long-term performance.
At inemmo, we work with boards and executive teams to treat succession planning as a vital thread of strategy. It is not about filling a vacancy; it is about building a pipeline of leaders prepared to guide the business through whatever comes next.
Embed Succession from the Start, Not the Exit
Succession planning should begin the moment a new CEO or senior leader steps into their role—not when they start thinking about stepping down. Organisations that excel in this space treat succession as an ongoing leadership responsibility, not a reactive process.
Embedding succession planning into the rhythm of executive oversight enables early identification of potential successors and helps ensure long-term readiness.. It allows leadership teams to make informed decisions, avoid last-minute scrambles, and ensure the future is always being shaped—not simply awaited.
The Next Leader Should Be Built for What’s Ahead
One of the most common missteps in succession is choosing someone who mirrors the current leader. While continuity has its place, it should not come at the expense of future readiness.
Boards and leadership teams must look beyond what works now because tomorrow’s challenges will be different. What capabilities will be essential as the business evolves? What leadership style will help the organisation respond to new market forces, emerging technologies, or global uncertainties?
Succession planning must be future-facing. It requires a clear, dynamic leadership profile—one that evolves alongside strategy, culture, and external shifts. Psychometric tools, behavioural assessments and executive development insights provide the evidence needed to identify not just high performers, but high-potential leaders prepared for tomorrow’s demands.
A Strong Handover Builds Confidence and Momentum
A leadership transition is not just about who comes next—it’s about how they are supported. Outgoing leaders play a vital role in enabling a smooth handover. When handled with transparency and structure, this transition builds confidence among investors, employees, and stakeholders.
It is essential that the incoming leader is given both backing and breathing space. A well-executed handover includes mentorship without interference, knowledge transfer without micromanagement, and public endorsement without overreach.
The real measure of a leadership legacy is not only in what was achieved—but in how the next chapter is made possible.
Succession Planning as a Leadership Culture
Truly resilient organisations treat succession planning as a core element of their leadership culture. It becomes part of how talent is developed, how strategy is sustained, and how growth is enabled over time.
At inemmo, we help organisations make succession planning part of the leadership dialogue, not a last-minute discussion. We support boards, senior teams and HR leaders to prepare the next generation of executives—not just to take over, but to take the organisation forward.
Succession is not about replacement. It’s about renewal.
The Right Conversation Can Change Everything. Let’s Talk.
